In a jaw-dropping display of defiance that left royal watchers stunned, Meghan Markle reportedly ignored urgent warnings from palace advisors and brazenly walked ahead of Queen Elizabeth II during one of her very first official engagements with the late monarch. The incident, which unfolded during the Duchess of Sussex’s debut joint outing with Her Majesty in Chester in June 2018, has been resurfaced and dissected endlessly, painting a picture of a “loose cannon” who refused to bow to centuries-old royal traditions.

Eyewitness accounts and video footage from the day show Meghan striding confidently ahead of the 92-year-old Queen, breaking the fundamental rule of royal protocol that no one – absolutely no one – walks in front of the sovereign in public. Advisors and protocol officers were said to have frantically reminded her of the etiquette, urging her to step back and allow Her Majesty to lead. But Meghan, fresh into royal life and seemingly overwhelmed by the crowds, paid no heed. Instead, she continued forward, accepting bouquets of flowers from well-wishers that many believe were intended primarily for the Queen herself.
Sources close to the palace at the time described the scene as chaotic. Three protocol officers allegedly struggled to rein her in as she “snatched” flowers meant for the monarch, tucking them into her arms without deference to the order of precedence. The moment was captured on camera: Meghan eagerly reaching out, grabbing tributes from the public while the Queen walked behind, ever gracious but visibly positioned secondary in the frame. Critics argue this wasn’t mere enthusiasm from a newcomer – it was a blatant show of disregard for the woman who embodied the monarchy for over seven decades.
The drama didn’t end with the walkabout. As the pair prepared to depart in the royal vehicle, another protocol blunder unfolded. Meghan hesitated at the car door, unsure of the proper order, and reportedly asked the Queen, “What’s your preference?” In a classic display of Her Majesty’s legendary poise and kindness, Queen Elizabeth gestured for the newcomer to enter first, avoiding any awkward standoff and ensuring she could take her customary seat behind the driver. Yet detractors point out that Meghan pushed ahead once more, boarding the car before the monarch – a move that, without the Queen’s intervention, could have created an even more embarrassing public spectacle.
This wasn’t an isolated slip-up, according to royal insiders. The Chester engagement was meant to be a warm introduction for Meghan into the fold, with the Queen personally guiding her through the day. Instead, it became a flashpoint for those who claim Meghan consistently ignored advice and prioritized her own instincts over tradition. “Not an ounce of respect,” one observer fumed at the time, echoing sentiments that have only grown louder in the years since.
The late Queen Elizabeth II, known for her unwavering commitment to duty and decorum, handled the situation with characteristic grace. She smoothed over the car moment and continued the engagement without public rebuke, demonstrating the patience and wisdom that defined her reign. But for many loyal subjects, these early signs of protocol breaches were red flags – indicators of a deeper clash between modern individualism and the timeless expectations of the monarchy.
Years later, with Queen Elizabeth now sadly passed, these resurfaced clips continue to fuel debate. Was Meghan simply nervous and inexperienced, caught up in the excitement of her new role? Or did her actions reveal a fundamental unwillingness to adapt to the institution she joined? The evidence, from the ignored advisors to the snatched flowers and the bold strides ahead of the sovereign, suggests the latter to her harshest critics.
As the royal family continues to navigate its future without the steady hand of Queen Elizabeth II, moments like these serve as stark reminders of the challenges faced when tradition meets a very different approach. Meghan’s refusal to listen, her determination to forge ahead – literally and figuratively – left an indelible mark on that historic day in Chester. For many, it was the beginning of a pattern that ultimately contributed to the tensions we see today.
Our beloved Monarch deserved better. Queen Elizabeth II embodied respect, humility, and service above all. To see her overshadowed in such a way remains, for royal traditionalists, an unforgivable breach that history will not forget.